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Monday, December 17, 2012

HANUKKAH, TRIUMPH, AND JOB SEARCH


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#HANUKKAH, TRIUMPH, AND #JOBSEARCH http://ow.ly/g9RH7 When you are out of work, have a family to support, and don't necessarily have any immediate job prospects it can be difficult to believe you have anything to feel triumphant about.  And that is probably an understatement!  Read more:  HANUKKAH, TRIUMPH, AND JOB SEARCH

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Thursday, December 13, 2012

HANUKKAH HOPE AND JOB SEARCH


Hope.  Encarta Dictionary defines Hope as a feeling that something desirable is likely to happen.  Well now, doesn't that sound good!?!  If you have lost hope I am sure it does!


You can make what you need happen, but it’s likely you won’t if you don’t start with a foundation of hope.  If you want to be successful in your job search you must begin by hoping you can.  Otherwise you may not see opportunities that present themselves

So often, when I meet with job seekers they focus on the negative and it is very obvious they have given up hope at ever finding a job.  Often, my clients have been injured at work and are faced with a career change in addition to the difficulties posed by the tough economy.

It is often difficult to regain your hope if you have been struggling for some time.  But, it is possible. If you have lost hope and would like to regain your positive focus, here are a few things you can do:


  • Activity helps you feel hopeful.  Plan your days and force yourself to stay active toward achieving your goals and in maintaining your relationships.
  • Focus on what you CAN control.  Your ACTIONS are within your control even if you feel nothing else is.
  • Think about what you WANT or CAN do.  It is not enough to say you want to get a job or get back to work.  Really give some thought to what you CAN DO now.
  • Set short and long term GOALS.  Long term goals will give you encouragement to keep going and assurance that your efforts are not in vain.
  • Determine what you NEED to attain your goals.  You may need to improve your skills, increase your knowledge or expand your network.  If you are like most job seekers – probably all of the above!
  • Ask for HELP.  We all need help from time to time.  You may not have what you need to get a job without help.  Help and hope can come in the form of friends and family or from a professional.

SOME BACKGROUND ON THIS ARTICLE

Hanukkah started 12/8/12 this year.  I am not Jewish and don’t celebrate Hanukkah, but have always been  surrounded by friends who observe.  This year, I thought I would post an article each day of the Celebration.  Although Hanukkah means Dedication, it seems that it also means more.  Each article will highlight a meaningful ideal that I feel can be related to either the Celebration of Hanukkah or career planning and job search.

I will kindle one light on the menorah by sharing the titles of each article theme or candle:

1.       Dedication  
2.       Gratitude 
3.       Charity 
4.       Faith  
5.       Hope  
6.       Perseverance  
7.       Focus 
8.       Triumph

If you would like to learn more about Hanukkah or Chanukah, here is a very straightforward article that I found helpful:  Short Article on Chanukah.

If you have children at home and would like them to learn about other cultures or involve them more in yours if you are celebrating:  Hanukkah for Kids.

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Hanukkah started 12/8/12 this year. I am not Jewish and don't celebrate Hanukkah, but have always been surrounded by friends who observe. This year, I thought I would post an article each day of the Celebration. Although ...
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Tuesday, December 11, 2012

HANUKKAH, CHARITY, AND JOB SEARCH

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Charity.  Encarta dictionary defines Charity as the voluntary provision of money, materials or help to people in need.  It can also mean a willingness to judge people in a tolerant way or the impartial love of other people.  If you are unemployed, it may be difficult for you to find your way to do any of the above…. How can charity benefit you?

One of the first things to go when you are unemployed and/or have a reduced income is your self-esteem!  This loss of self-esteem can be more detrimental than you realize.  As adults in our culture, we identify ourselves with our jobs or our professions.  This can be good when you are working, but definitely NOT if you are unemployed.

You may need to rethink your view of yourself (including considering other career options) and focus on any positive aspects of your life.  If your life is getting up at some point everyday to sift through and apply to job openings then it might be difficult to find a positive aspect!
If you have a family, concentrate on being the best parent, sibling, or child you can be and take pride in that!  Regardless, volunteering will give you a sense of accomplishment, perspective, and fulfillment that will aid in repairing your bruised or mangled self-esteem!

The other loss when you are unemployed is a current job on work history. Volunteering may give you something to add to your resume or at least give you something to talk about doing that is positive. 

Here are some other benefits to volunteering that you may not have considered:

      1.  Put something current on your resume. Ideally you will be able to arrange an internship, on the job training or a volunteer experience with a company or agency that will enhance your resume. If not, at least you will be able to show you are doing something
            2.       Learn new skills. You may not be current with the current computer software, techniques, or theories being used in your targeted industry(ies). You may never have had the opportunity to use or practice skills employers are looking for. Volunteering may be just the way to get the skills you need to be competitive.
 3.     Network with people you wouldn’t normally come into contact with. Volunteering to work can put you in contact with many more people than you would ordinarily come into contact with. AND, you will automatically have something in common with them. 


  4.     Show what you can do and how quickly you can learn new things. SHOW ME - Volunteering gives you the opportunity to show an employer what you are capable of. All those you come into contact with will be able to speak to others of your capabilities. 

  
 5.     Volunteering can give you the social feedback you may be missing since you have been off of work. When you go to work and see people you are acknowledged and validated if even by the simple act of greeting one another. If you are not working and working alone on your job search all day, you may feel as if you are nobody. 


 6.     Your self-confidence can use a boost in general if you have been off work for a while. Volunteering can help 
YOU feel more confident and capable which in turn will make it easier to convince others!


 7.     Volunteering to work can expose you to other career paths or opportunities that you might not have considered or have been aware of. There is nothing like being “in the trenches” and knowing exactly where employer and industry needs lie.


 8.     Obtain a letter of recommendation that will help when applying for other jobs, especially in a new career or industry.  If not, at least obtain a commitment for a verbal reference when called.

 I hope you will consider “employing” a little charity going forward…

What does charity mean to you?



SOME BACKGROUND ON THIS ARTICLE

Hanukkah started 12/8/12 this year.  I am not Jewish and don’t celebrate Hanukkah, but have always been  surrounded by friends who observe.  This year, I thought I would post an article each day of the Celebration.  Although Hanukkah means Dedication, it seems that it also means more.  Each article will highlight a meaningful ideal that I feel can be related to either the Celebration of Hanukkah or career planning and job search.

I will kindle one light on the menorah by sharing the titles of each article theme or candle:

1.       Dedication  
2.       Gratitude 
3.       Charity 
4.       Faith  
5.       Hope  
6.       Perseverance  
7.       Focus 
8.       Triumph

If you would like to learn more about Hanukkah or Chanukah, here is a very straightforward article that I found helpful:  Short Article on Chanukah.

If you have children at home and would like them to learn about other cultures or involve them more in yours if you are celebrating:  Hanukkah for Kids.

Other articles that may be of interest:


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Monday, December 10, 2012

HANUKKAH, GRATITUDE, AND JOB SEARCH


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GRATITUDE.   Encarta Dictionary defines gratitude as "a feeling of being thankful to somebody for doing something."  When you are embroiled in job search, especially a long term one, it may be difficult to find anything to be thankful for.  

When you are out of work for any length of time it may feel that the negatives far outweigh any positive things in your life. Usually this is more a factor of focus and not necessarily reality.

This is not to say your life is nothing but a bed of roses.  Rather, the more you push yourself to focus on the things you have to be thankful for, the less negative you will see things.

And, you may have to push yourself!  Have you ever heard of the expression, "Fake it til you make it."? This approach can work very well for you and your situation if you apply it diligently.
WHY SHOULD YOU BE THANKFUL NOT THANKLESS?

 I will leave you to come up with the particulars, but in general focusing on the positives can:
  1. Facilitate more positive feedback from others
  2. Allow you to see more of the bigger picture so you don't miss opportunities
  3. Encourage others 
  4. Relieve stress at home
  5. Give you something else to focus on
  6. Release endorphins that will make you feel better
  7. Contribute to a more successful job search
  8. Free you up to spend your energy on beneficial thoughts and activities
  9. Make you feel good
You can choose to be thankful not thankless.  I hope you do!

What do you feel thankful for?


SOME BACKGROUND ON THIS ARTICLE

Hanukkah started 12/8/12 this year.  I am not Jewish and don’t celebrate Hanukkah, but have always been  surrounded by friends who observe.  This year, I thought I would post an article each day of the Celebration.  Although Hanukkah means Dedication, it seems that it also means more.  Each article will highlight a meaningful ideal that I feel can be related to either the Celebration of Hanukkah or career planning and job search.

I will kindle one light on the menorah by sharing the titles of each article theme or candle:

1.       Dedication  
2.       Gratitude 
3.       Charity 
4.       Faith  
5.       Hope  
6.       Perseverance  
7.       Focus 
8.       Triumph

If you would like to learn more about Hanukkah or Chanukah, here is a very straightforward article that I found helpful:  Short Article on Chanukah.

If you have children at home and would like them to learn about other cultures or involve them more in yours if you are celebrating:  Hanukkah for Kids.


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Sunday, December 9, 2012

HANUKKAH, DEDICATION, AND JOB SEARCH

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DEDICATION. Encarta Dictionary describes dedication as “The quality of being committed to something.”  It is important to be able to articulate what you are committed to.  If you have a family you would probably say that you are dedicated to your family.  If not, perhaps your friends, church or community.  Maybe for you, it is all of the above that you are dedicated to!

The bottom line is that if you are dedicated to something you will have to show it at some point.  How dedicated are you to your job search (short term goal) and career plan (long term goal)?  Are you doing what you need to do everyday?

Write down what you are dedicated to in big letters on one sheet of paper and put it where you can see it when you are on the computer or telephone.  Make this your focus and strive every day to do your best toward those things to which you have decided to dedicate your efforts.

I have no idols. I admire work, dedication and competence. 



If you have been in a job search for a while, you will want to re-examine and re-dedicate yourself to that job search.  If you haven’t really been able to achieve the short term goals toward your over all career goal, it may be time to rethink that goal and dedicate yourself to another.

Dedication is hard work. You may have to overcome adversity and What you choose to dedicate yourself to is purely up to you.  What choices will you make?

SOME BACKGROUND ON THIS ARTICLE

Hanukkah started 12/8/12 this year.  I am not Jewish and don’t celebrate Hanukkah, but have always been  surrounded by friends who observe.  This year, I thought I would post an article each day of the Celebration.  Although Hanukkah means Dedication, it seems that it also means more.  Each article will highlight a meaningful ideal that I feel can be related to either the Celebration of Hanukkah or career planning and job search.

I will kindle one light on the menorah by sharing the titles of each article theme or candle:

1.       Dedication  
2.       Gratitude 
3.       Charity 
4.       Faith  
5.       Hope  
6.       Perseverance  
7.       Focus 
8.       Triumph

If you would like to learn more about Hanukkah or Chanukah, here is a very straightforward article that I found helpful:  Short Article on Chanukah.

If you have children at home and would like them to learn about other cultures or involve them more in yours if you are celebrating:  Hanukkah for Kids.

Other articles that may be of interest:


Nov 02, 2012
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Sep 24, 2012
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Saturday, December 8, 2012

HANUKKAH AND JOB SEARCH


Hanukkah starts today, 12/8/12, this year.  I am not Jewish and don’t celebrate Hanukkah, but have always been  surrounded by friends who observe.  This year, I thought I would post an article each day of the Celebration.  Although Hanukkah means Dedication, it seems that it also means more.  Each article will highlight a meaningful ideal that I feel can be related to either the Celebration of Hanukkah or career planning and job search.

I will kindle one light on the menorah by sharing the titles of each article theme or candle:

1.       Dedication  
2.       Gratitude 
3.       Charity 
4.       Faith  
5.       Hope  
6.       Perseverance  
7.       Focus 
8.       Triumph
Photo from: http://www.sanfords.net/Spots_free_graphics/Menorah_graphics_for_free.html

If you would like to learn more about Hanukkah or Chanukah, here is a very straightforward article that I found helpful:  Short Article on Chanukah.


If you have children at home and would like them to learn about other cultures or involve them more in yours if you are celebrating:  Hanukkah for Kids.


Other articles that may be of interest:

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