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Monday, September 24, 2012

How to handle disappointment of a non-job offer

You have been putting your heart and soul into a proactive job search - check.
Telephone, interview and second interview completed - check.
Thank you notes sent - check.
Waiting for THE CALL that will notify you that you are being offered the job - check.

THE CALL comes and the caller id shows that the caller is THE EMPLOYER from whom you are awaiting an offer. You slow your heart and answer the phone with a gulp and a smile. SLOWLY you begin to follow the caller's words and your entire body sags into a nearby chair.

"It was a difficult decision. You are an excellent candidate. Thank you for your interest. UNFORTUNATELY we have decided to offer the job to ANOTHER CANDIDATE....."

There are few words that you can say or can be said to assuage the disappointment of a non-job offer.

FORTUNATELY there are a few things you CAN DO after your heart sinks back out of your throat and you begin breathing again:

Thank the caller immediately - employers don't always notify those that are not hired.
Ask for feedback - this is difficult, but can make all the difference in your next opportunity.
Get back on the horse - if you have laid back on your job search hoping for this offer regroup and restart!
Seek out people, things, and activities that will bolster you and help salve your self-esteem.
After a little time has passed assess the opportunity and non-job offer. If there was something you could have changed make note and learn from it. If not, move on to your next opportunity.

In the end, it is important to do what you can and let what you can't control go. Equally important is that you understand you OWN YOUR EMOTIONS. Feel them, understand them, and put them in their proper perspective. It may be hard, but it is possible to handle the disappointment of a non-job offer!

Friday, September 7, 2012

How to negotiate a higher wage

You got the job!

I have had clients call me to say everything from “I think I just got hired.” To “I just lost the job with my counter offer.” What I like to hear best is a flat out, unequivocal, “I got the job!” Clear and simple.

Don’t let your nerves get the best of you when you receive a call for a job offer following a recent interview. Listen to the employer and jot notes as he or she talks. Be sure to take the time to clarify the following:

What position are you being offered?
When does the employer want you to start?
What are the next steps in the hiring process?
What is the pay, benefits, bonus?
To whom and what location should you report?
What additional paperwork or other things will you need to bring then?
Who should you contact if you have questions prior to your start date?

You should be prepared to complete an I-9 form that will require you to confirm your identity via driver’s license and birth certificate or with a passport. Read this article for more information on types of documentation that would be acceptable.

Hopefully you already have a good idea of the culture, dress and setting of your new job. If you can clarify any of these concerns ahead of your start date it is a good idea to do so! If you can’t carefully get any of these questions answered err on the side of caution and make sure to:

Dress a little better than you think is the typical attire – it is ok if you stand out a little bit as the new person, especially if you look and feel good!
Get a good night rest the night before and leave plenty of time for breakfast in the morning.
Pack some snacks to have just in case – your first day will likely fly by and lunch may get lost in the shuffle if you are being oriented by more than one person.
If it is an office job make sure to have a planner, notebook, and/or pen with you just in case.

You should already have a good idea of the wage being offered for this position, but if you receive an offer that is too low and you would like to negotiate you should:

Research prevailing wages via ACINET.org and CareerBuilder.com and have that wage information available.
Think very carefully about asking for a higher salary – it is an employer’s market out there right now!
Ask if the wage is negotiable or if it is a firm offer – be prepared to carefully discuss a possible counter offer
Consider asking when you could effect and increase as you are willing to prove yourself.

Again, I caution you to tread carefully! I recently just heard about a job seeker offered $10,000 less than she hoped. She made a counter offer and was provided with an offer for a sign on bonus of $7,000 instead. The hopeful candidate asked if she could think about it and received a call 15 minutes later telling her that they were retracting their offer. The employer was seeking an employee who was excited at the opportunity to work for them and she did not seem very excited.

Salary negotiation is a tight walk. The alternative is to accept the job and see where it takes you – it will likely not be your last job and you can start job searching again whenever you like! In the end, a job offer is a good thing, whether you have to dance through negotiations or just accept it…

What other things can you think of to be prepared for that job offer?